Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Lillias Dow Graham with the following comment:
My namesake is a woman named Lillias (we don't know her last name) but the story goes she was engaged to my great-grandfather who emigrated from Scotland and was working to make a life in the US ( his name was Alec Munro). She died before he could bring her over. She would have died around this time, and I'm not sure but this could be her.